I’ve never even been a relationship; i don’t mean committment, as in marriage….
screw you annie…get a life.

Try M Scott Peck the road less travelled. Also maybe read Men are from Mars for relationship.

Both helped me understand a lot about reluctance to commit in myself.

thankfully Annie M hasnt written either of them!

and as far as i know both are written by fully fledged medically qualified therapists with years of experiece.