Comments on: Have question about self help divorce and custody? http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/have-question-about-self-help-divorce-and-custody Self Help and Personal Growth Motivation Sat, 11 Feb 2012 17:16:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Motherhood is cool! http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/have-question-about-self-help-divorce-and-custody/comment-page-1#comment-9320 Motherhood is cool! Sun, 01 Aug 2010 06:43:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/have-question-about-self-help-divorce-and-custody#comment-9320 I suggest you go to a mediator. If you both agree on mostly everything, even custody, then a mediator can hammer out the details, put it in an order and have it sent to the court house for a judge to sign, although some states require that you still go before a judge and read the agreement into the record, but that's it. As long as what you wrote is legal then it should be pretty quick and you won't have to involve a lawyer. Call your local mediators. If you can't find some in your area call the court house and ask for a list or a suggestion.<br><b>References : </b><br>By the way GOOD FOR YOU, men can make great fathers even if they were bad husbands. It is so great you can be an adult about this and really do what is best for your kid! WAY TO GO!!!! (My husband has custody of his son from a previous relationship) I suggest you go to a mediator. If you both agree on mostly everything, even custody, then a mediator can hammer out the details, put it in an order and have it sent to the court house for a judge to sign, although some states require that you still go before a judge and read the agreement into the record, but that’s it. As long as what you wrote is legal then it should be pretty quick and you won’t have to involve a lawyer. Call your local mediators. If you can’t find some in your area call the court house and ask for a list or a suggestion.
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By the way GOOD FOR YOU, men can make great fathers even if they were bad husbands. It is so great you can be an adult about this and really do what is best for your kid! WAY TO GO!!!! (My husband has custody of his son from a previous relationship)

]]> By: Chained Angel http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/have-question-about-self-help-divorce-and-custody/comment-page-1#comment-9319 Chained Angel Sun, 01 Aug 2010 05:53:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/have-question-about-self-help-divorce-and-custody#comment-9319 you don't say where you're from and this can have a large impact on the answer to the question. in the part of canada i'm in you could do up a separation agreement with special clauses for custody and child support and that would be sufficient. however, not everywhere is like that.<br><b>References : </b><br> you don’t say where you’re from and this can have a large impact on the answer to the question.

in the part of canada i’m in you could do up a separation agreement with special clauses for custody and child support and that would be sufficient. however, not everywhere is like that.
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]]> By: TheOne http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/have-question-about-self-help-divorce-and-custody/comment-page-1#comment-9318 TheOne Sun, 01 Aug 2010 05:47:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/have-question-about-self-help-divorce-and-custody#comment-9318 I believe a Judge (Court) still has to sign off on this. See the links below. You need an attorney. Reference this site for free legal advice. I ran across this site when I was looking for legal advice. It is free and has real / licensed lawyers. Don’t forget, lawyers will meet with you for an initial meeting for free. Also, nowadays, many lawyers will make arrangements with you for payments on a weekly, bi-weekly basis. Don’t forget, licensed professionals, like everyone else, are having a hard time making ends meet. They are willing to work with you. Just get out your telephone book and start calling them (if you don’t want to check out the site). Peace. ☺♥☻<br><b>References : </b><br>. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/DadsHouse/links/Dads_House_Manual_001277514301/ . http://www.lawguru.com/ I believe a Judge (Court) still has to sign off on this.

See the links below.

You need an attorney.

Reference this site for free legal advice. I ran across this site when I was looking for legal advice. It is free and has real / licensed lawyers. Don’t forget, lawyers will meet with you for an initial meeting for free. Also, nowadays, many lawyers will make arrangements with you for payments on a weekly, bi-weekly basis. Don’t forget, licensed professionals, like everyone else, are having a hard time making ends meet. They are willing to work with you.

Just get out your telephone book and start calling them (if you don’t want to check out the site).

Peace.
☺♥☻
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http://groups.yahoo.com/group/DadsHouse/links/Dads_House_Manual_001277514301/

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http://www.lawguru.com/

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