I think i must be slightly depressed but hurting my self seems like the only way people will start to take notice of me and realise i have feelings. I have been ditched a lot lately, by my dad ( he started a new family), by my best friend ( she is mad at me for the stupidest thing) , by other friends , and boyfriends. I feel WORTHLESS. I feel like nobody has time for me and everyone thinks its okay to walk all over me. My depression is gradually getting worse and worse i feel like im screaming but no one is listening. Hurting my self or even suicide has been crossing my mind a lot lately because it feels like im going nuts! please help me or tell me what to do!
I noticed you and will help.
It is okay for you to feel lonely some times we just do, I know it sounds funny but we do, we can be in a room with a lot of people and we can still feel lonely. It has nothing to do with others it is the way we feel about our selves, but some times we just need this time alone to find our selves to reflect on our lives. Always rushing around, being so busy all the time being with people constantly going going going being so use to being with some body all the time no time for our selves as soon as we are by our selves we feel that no one wants us around, but that is not it, it was just that we (you) are just use to being with people all the time. But now is actually your time, your time to do what you want by your self with out someone being there taking up your time. Go to the mall, to the movie or just sleep in, this is your time to rejuvenate your body and soul, when you are rejuvenated you will look better, you will feel better and you will take things that come your way better, and you wont feel like your family and friends are blowing you off or ignoring, you will just know that you can’t always be with them all the time.
Now as for your dad, I am sorry your parents are well, and your dad doesn’t live with you and that must be hard on you, but just because he isn’t there doesn’t he doesn’t love you are that he has been ditching you, he has a new family and he hasn’t figured out a way to find time to spend with you he is still getting to know how much time he has in his life, remember always rushing around no time to get to know your self, well this is what your dad might be going through right now, if you want to spend time with him, then talk to him even if it is just for a minute, that might be all the time he has for you at the moment in time, he may not be able to see you, but you can always call him even if it is just to say hi, I know no matter how busy or tired i was I would want to say hi to you and until I can find the time to see for lunch or dinner or even have you come over just to hang out I will answer.
So my dear, try not to feel so bad about the way your days are turning out right now and just take as time for your self, there will come a time in your life when you will have no time in your life for your life, but just enough time for those around you.
Don’t hurt your self, don’t think about hurting your or worst especially worst, because if you do, you wont know what you could have done in your life or the people you could have helped get through some tough times in their lives.
Till next time….cuz….Take care and Keep the Faith…..peace….
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I used to feel this way, i felt that i was worthless and nobody would notice me unless i hurt myself. I spoke to child line about this and they gave e lots of helpful advice. I also suggest you talk to your friends about this and definately tell your parents you feel this way. At least you recognise you have a problem and know that you need to fix it!
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http://www.childline.org.uk/Pages/Home.aspx
Don’t do it. U would wind up in a mental hospital.
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personal experience
DON’T hurt yourself for attention, people who are genuinely depressed etc do that, but they try so hard to not get found out! and if people find out you’re doing it for attention, then that’s only going to lead to trouble, isn’t it? and don’t try suicide, i’ve tried it a couple of times, and got found both times, and the first time was an overdose and i was in the worst agony of my life for weeks, and who knows what i’ve done to my liver etc!
i think you should see a doctor or a counsellor, and talk this through, before it gets worse, or even tell a teacher at school who you trust? and try taking up a hobby, like painting, drawing, playing an instrument, playing a sport, whatever you want, it’ll help calm you down. write a diary or something, cos then you can have a scream at all those people you hate and rant about all your problems with no consequences. Please get help, and send me a message any time. X
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Try calling Kids help line on 1800 55 1800, it’s a free call from all home phones or optus mobile phones. They help a lot and will listen and help you all for free. They’re so friendly and won’t tell anyone what you tell them.
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Hey Channelley,
You’re NOT worthless, ok? =D. Don’t let anyone trample all over you, and no don’t hurt yourself, it is useless. Committing suicide or hurting yourself is just like admitting defeat, it will resolve absolutely nothing.
Whenever I’m down which is quite a lot of the time, I just listen to my favorite music. Don’t listen to ordinary music, try and find some music that when you close your eyes, makes you feel like you are on another planet. This will get all your thoughts out of your head and will pretty much just set you free.
Some great music titles would be songs like fly away, and take me away by 4 strings. It pretty much makes you close your eyes, and forget about everything that is in your life.
One more thing, don’t look at the past and what has happened, ALWAYS say to yourself ‘I’m gonna get out of this, don’t worry’. I’m not a psychologist or anything so I don’t really know what else to say, but that is what I do. Always think of happy thoughts, and always tell yourself that everything will pass away, you won’t be like that forever.
Hope this helps you out, and just be positive, listen to some music, close your eyes, and you’ll get over it!
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DOn’t do it. Stay strong. Hang in there
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Someones gone through worst stuff before
a search for sympathy is going to get you anywhere
talk to your friends
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Trust me, hurting urself will not make things better. If u become a self-harmer, u will want to keep things secretive and block ppl out. I suggest talking to ur friends and family about what is bothering you and perhaps seek professional help.
ANd ur not worthless. <3
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I noticed you and will help.
It is okay for you to feel lonely some times we just do, I know it sounds funny but we do, we can be in a room with a lot of people and we can still feel lonely. It has nothing to do with others it is the way we feel about our selves, but some times we just need this time alone to find our selves to reflect on our lives. Always rushing around, being so busy all the time being with people constantly going going going being so use to being with some body all the time no time for our selves as soon as we are by our selves we feel that no one wants us around, but that is not it, it was just that we (you) are just use to being with people all the time. But now is actually your time, your time to do what you want by your self with out someone being there taking up your time. Go to the mall, to the movie or just sleep in, this is your time to rejuvenate your body and soul, when you are rejuvenated you will look better, you will feel better and you will take things that come your way better, and you wont feel like your family and friends are blowing you off or ignoring, you will just know that you can’t always be with them all the time.
Now as for your dad, I am sorry your parents are well, and your dad doesn’t live with you and that must be hard on you, but just because he isn’t there doesn’t he doesn’t love you are that he has been ditching you, he has a new family and he hasn’t figured out a way to find time to spend with you he is still getting to know how much time he has in his life, remember always rushing around no time to get to know your self, well this is what your dad might be going through right now, if you want to spend time with him, then talk to him even if it is just for a minute, that might be all the time he has for you at the moment in time, he may not be able to see you, but you can always call him even if it is just to say hi, I know no matter how busy or tired i was I would want to say hi to you and until I can find the time to see for lunch or dinner or even have you come over just to hang out I will answer.
So my dear, try not to feel so bad about the way your days are turning out right now and just take as time for your self, there will come a time in your life when you will have no time in your life for your life, but just enough time for those around you.
Don’t hurt your self, don’t think about hurting your or worst especially worst, because if you do, you wont know what you could have done in your life or the people you could have helped get through some tough times in their lives.
Till next time….cuz….Take care and Keep the Faith…..peace….
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