Comments on: Self-Help Tips : How to Handle a Narcissist

By: Emilydogcat

Emilydogcat — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:27:06 +0000

I think what he is …
I think what he is saying is that you can either avoid your mom or you will have to flatter her in order to get your needs met.

By: Emilydogcat

Emilydogcat — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:27:06 +0000

The advice is …
The advice is helpful….first avoid the N if you can—that makes sense—-if they are your boss or in the case of one of the people commenting, your mother, you can flatter them and then sneak your opinions in—–it is a strategy to get your needs met—-I don’t think confrontation works well—I find the narcissist gets very defensive and does not listen to you—

By: guydecervens

guydecervens — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:27:05 +0000

My advice for …
My advice for dealing with a narcissist is to put three in their head, right behind their ear. Do it while they are sleeping and there will be less of a blood splatter than when they are standing up. Also their heart rate is lower so they will bleed out less. I recommend using this tip on how to deal with a narcissist. I hope it has been of help to you all.

By: glidethroughcorners

glidethroughcorners — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:27:05 +0000

well, he gave good …
well, he gave good advice for free so we should thank him…gay or straight

By: glidethroughcorners

glidethroughcorners — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:27:05 +0000

thanks doc for the …
thanks doc for the free advice

By: mingalabaa

mingalabaa — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:27:05 +0000

I only found out …
I only found out about this 2 motnhs agao thoguh I had been forced to try to stay away from my sister, 15 yers older. She is getting worse, still bent on detroying me more than ever. I am scared. In am the second youngest in a big family. Though I am an afdult now. My oldest sister has aliented all of my siblings from me, using her money.

By: Tringo40

Tringo40 — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:27:05 +0000

So how do i accept …
So how do i accept wisdom?

By: TheMeta1

TheMeta1 — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:27:05 +0000

again, expert …
again, expert village comes up with another…..non answer to the question it advertises to answer……..meh

By: NATH268

NATH268 — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:27:05 +0000

” ” are part …
” ” are part of life and can be found and are found in every profession. They are everywhere and all around us. You need to learn to deal with it., It’s 2009! If he studied medicine then hes a Dr. Stop being so ignorant and homophobic and learn some respect and tolerance for your fellow citizens. We are all different but all human. Diversity exists in all species of life.

By: LUVJONZ99

LUVJONZ99 — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:27:05 +0000

Blessings and …
Blessings and prayers to all who were parented, married, dated, divorcing, or the sibling of a Narcissist.
It”s tough, I wish I had had this information 20 years ago! I was taught to rationalize the Narcissist behavior unless they did something violent or life threatening. I too feel I have wasted years’ of my life and am seeking therapy.