Comments on: Self-Help Tips : How to Tell If You Have Low Self-Esteem

By: HotmenClubCentral

HotmenClubCentral — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:02:06 +0000

wow!! my friend is …
wow!! my friend is going CRAZY!! she thinks she has low sel esteem!! it’s so annoying! thanks

By: joanofarcxxi

joanofarcxxi — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:02:06 +0000

many people with …
many people with low self esteem rely only on their looks to feel good about themselves. they look in the mirror, like what they see, and believe that is who they are. yet they are crushed by lack of adulation – you have to tell them all the time how great they are because they are beautiful? shallow. healthy self esteem comes from within even if you aren’t a beauty by common standards. you feel good about who you are, not about how you look and you make other people feel good too!

By: Shavarnarak

Shavarnarak — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:02:06 +0000

I kind of wonder …
I kind of wonder though. What if you do that honest appraisal of a person and their life, accomplishments, personal traits etc. really DO suck badly, to put it bluntly?

Like, what if someone honestly could be considered a failure, and they know it well, so that suggesting otherwise really involves an element of self-delusion.

I am wondering this, because fact is… there ARE cases of low-self esteem where they have a reason to feel that way, even if its not doing them any good.

By: matthewm0311

matthewm0311 — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:02:06 +0000

thats exactly what …
thats exactly what i was going to say…. Sometimes I think my low self esteem comes from being a realist. Because when I am doing well and accomplishing goals my self esteem always seems to be high.

By: fuckoff942

fuckoff942 — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:02:06 +0000

my best friend …
my best friend kelsey always downs herself she’ll look at a pic of herself and then she’ll say Oh I look so ugly in this picture, and I told her you do know you’re bringing yourself down, she said I dont care then I was like well You’re going to lower your self esteem and it isn’t good for you, she kept saying nasty things about herself, and until one day I told her she should stop, she ACTUALLY listened to me and plus that her BF helped with that to. so shes been pretty good about it lately!

By: HatemShredHed

HatemShredHed — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:02:05 +0000

Damn, I think of …
Damn, I think of the same here too. You know, our thoughts & opinions about ourselves and towards others is really what makes things go bad. Have you watched ‘The Secret’? That helped me allot.

By: sweetchocolate1977

sweetchocolate1977 — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:02:05 +0000

how would u know …
how would u know the symptoms of LSE
unless you’ve had it?

By: crazysoccerman14

crazysoccerman14 — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:02:05 +0000

Ya. good advice …
Ya. good advice though

By: youngnewtonian

youngnewtonian — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:02:05 +0000

Such a fag!
Such a fag!

By: dgontar

dgontar — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:02:05 +0000

“Like, what if …
“Like, what if someone honestly could be considered a failure, and they know it well, so that suggesting otherwise really involves an element of self-delusion.”

This should be used in a stand-up comedy act.