Comments on: What can I do to help my husband increase his self confidence? http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/what-can-i-do-to-help-my-husband-increase-his-self-confidence Self Help and Personal Growth Motivation Sat, 11 Feb 2012 17:16:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: alan h http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/what-can-i-do-to-help-my-husband-increase-his-self-confidence/comment-page-1#comment-4614 alan h Sun, 28 Feb 2010 16:21:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/what-can-i-do-to-help-my-husband-increase-his-self-confidence#comment-4614 Accept him as he is. Your 'motivating' could be counter-productive<br><b>References : </b><br> Accept him as he is.
Your ‘motivating’ could be counter-productive
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]]> By: Jess http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/what-can-i-do-to-help-my-husband-increase-his-self-confidence/comment-page-1#comment-4613 Jess Sun, 28 Feb 2010 15:49:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/what-can-i-do-to-help-my-husband-increase-his-self-confidence#comment-4613 Get some self help-confidence books. Look at or talk to people who have been in similar situations. Listen to some motivational music. If he's took giant leaps I don't know why he's afraid to take a few more steps. Try telling him that every time he complains. It might inspire him or even unwillingly push him in the right direction.<br><b>References : </b><br> Get some self help-confidence books. Look at or talk to people who have been in similar situations. Listen to some motivational music. If he’s took giant leaps I don’t know why he’s afraid to take a few more steps. Try telling him that every time he complains. It might inspire him or even unwillingly push him in the right direction.
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]]> By: juanhunglow http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/what-can-i-do-to-help-my-husband-increase-his-self-confidence/comment-page-1#comment-4612 juanhunglow Sun, 28 Feb 2010 15:10:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/what-can-i-do-to-help-my-husband-increase-his-self-confidence#comment-4612 start faking orgasms<br><b>References : </b><br> start faking orgasms
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]]> By: robynsbeauty http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/what-can-i-do-to-help-my-husband-increase-his-self-confidence/comment-page-1#comment-4611 robynsbeauty Sun, 28 Feb 2010 14:48:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/what-can-i-do-to-help-my-husband-increase-his-self-confidence#comment-4611 Behind every great man is a great woman. Why? The silly buggers need motivation and self esteem boosting! Such is my husband. But we are not talking about him today. I guess my best advice is to step into anything new. New places and people offer new experiences and therefore induce new interests and opportunities. Ask him what he might like to do? Talk about how you will get to that goal. If he has no problem studying, get that piece of paper that he needs, then start ANYWHERE that might possibly relate to his goal. Even if it is starting in the bottom position of that company. Do other things that will get you to your goal. If he is not confident about his office skills...then get some! Study some quick computer and admin courses. Look for work experiece that will put to use these skills. You could volunteer in a charity office? Btw, companies love when you do volunteer work. Imagine being the boss of a company and a guy you are interviewing says "I really want to work for you and this is what I have done to get here" They will be impressed that you have gone to so much trouble just for them. Some inspirational books: A New Earth - Eckhart Tolle The Secret - Rhonda Byrne Also look for some goal setting books.<br><b>References : </b><br> Behind every great man is a great woman. Why? The silly buggers need motivation and self esteem boosting!
Such is my husband. But we are not talking about him today.

I guess my best advice is to step into anything new. New places and people offer new experiences and therefore induce new interests and opportunities.

Ask him what he might like to do? Talk about how you will get to that goal. If he has no problem studying, get that piece of paper that he needs, then start ANYWHERE that might possibly relate to his goal. Even if it is starting in the bottom position of that company.

Do other things that will get you to your goal. If he is not confident about his office skills…then get some! Study some quick computer and admin courses. Look for work experiece that will put to use these skills. You could volunteer in a charity office?

Btw, companies love when you do volunteer work. Imagine being the boss of a company and a guy you are interviewing says "I really want to work for you and this is what I have done to get here"
They will be impressed that you have gone to so much trouble just for them.

Some inspirational books:

A New Earth – Eckhart Tolle
The Secret – Rhonda Byrne

Also look for some goal setting books.
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]]> By: shRavi http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/what-can-i-do-to-help-my-husband-increase-his-self-confidence/comment-page-1#comment-4610 shRavi Sun, 28 Feb 2010 14:13:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/self-help/what-can-i-do-to-help-my-husband-increase-his-self-confidence#comment-4610 Practice makes one perfect. You need to explain to him that there are so many guys failed many times to be what there are today. Most of the millionaires or billionaires started small and has failed many times. They learned by mistakes to go forward! Therefore, please don't give up?<br><b>References : </b><br> Practice makes one perfect. You need to explain to him that there are so many guys failed many times to be what there are today. Most of the millionaires or billionaires started small and has failed many times. They learned by mistakes to go forward! Therefore, please don’t give up?
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