Comments on: Concepts Of Happiness And Success http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success Self Help and Personal Growth Motivation Sun, 05 Sep 2010 12:11:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: CogitoErgoCogitoSum http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success/comment-page-1#comment-4652 CogitoErgoCogitoSum Mon, 01 Mar 2010 06:02:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success#comment-4652 People dont want to be happy. People would rather be mourned... we contemplate our own death, and its aftermath... even fantasize about apocalyptic events. Some people want to be martyrs. People gossip and have all sorts of drama in their lives that they just cant wait to glorify themselves by whining to their friends and coworkers. "Pity me... Pity me... my life is so bad. Feel sympathy for me and do stuff for me." And that whole emo social fad where everyone pretends they want to commit suicide because theyre so miserable... Or the people that see groups and get help they dont actually need for thing that they wont actually do. People dont want to be happy... if they're happy they have no right to complain, nothing to complain about. People want to be envied and glamorized... but not at the cost of working for it or having an expectation to maintain. People would rather fail in life due to not trying than fail in trying. Its less painful... and doesnt negate the possibility that "I" might actually be worth something. By not trying, and pretending it doesnt matter, they are guaranteed to never fail from inadequacies on their own part. Happiness is a spectrum. People dont want happiness. They just dont want to be miserable.<br><b>References : </b><br> People dont want to be happy.

People would rather be mourned… we contemplate our own death, and its aftermath… even fantasize about apocalyptic events. Some people want to be martyrs.

People gossip and have all sorts of drama in their lives that they just cant wait to glorify themselves by whining to their friends and coworkers. "Pity me… Pity me… my life is so bad. Feel sympathy for me and do stuff for me."

And that whole emo social fad where everyone pretends they want to commit suicide because theyre so miserable…

Or the people that see groups and get help they dont actually need for thing that they wont actually do.

People dont want to be happy… if they’re happy they have no right to complain, nothing to complain about.

People want to be envied and glamorized… but not at the cost of working for it or having an expectation to maintain.

People would rather fail in life due to not trying than fail in trying. Its less painful… and doesnt negate the possibility that "I" might actually be worth something. By not trying, and pretending it doesnt matter, they are guaranteed to never fail from inadequacies on their own part.

Happiness is a spectrum. People dont want happiness. They just dont want to be miserable.
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]]> By: arastoo i http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success/comment-page-1#comment-4651 arastoo i Mon, 01 Mar 2010 06:00:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success#comment-4651 Happiness is a state of mind. I wish you happy mind. Be happy by being good.<br><b>References : </b><br> Happiness is a state of mind. I wish you happy mind. Be happy by being good.
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]]> By: lookin4ansrs http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success/comment-page-1#comment-4650 lookin4ansrs Mon, 01 Mar 2010 05:58:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success#comment-4650 the best i can come up with....you know thatcarefree feeling tom petty sings about in "free falling" or when you're driving fast down the highway / road in the summer wih a great song on the radio and it's payday? that's the closet i can get to answering "what is happiness." the ultimate goal? yes...now that i've thought about it a moment...i believe at least in part that it is the ultimate goalof our exhistance. among others. so not THE, but in THE MOST IMPORTANT section of priorities. the reason i argree is our creator wants most of all for the people of the earth to learn love and happiness....the is his will for us. if it his will...how can it also not ours? even innately... why do we want it? because when we have it...we find the breathe to move along to the next moment. imagine a life void of............air. that is a lfe without happiness. is it success? that one totally depends on your own definition of 'success'. emotionally, morally, financially, etc. the feeling of peace, i think, equals success. as to why you are living your life...that will be a long journey that i am just in the middle of myself. no understanding? it's deeper than most humans grasp that we can go....so learn as much as you can and you can never go wrong.<br><b>References : </b><br> the best i can come up with….you know thatcarefree feeling tom petty sings about in "free falling" or when you’re driving fast down the highway / road in the summer wih a great song on the radio and it’s payday? that’s the closet i can get to answering "what is happiness."

the ultimate goal? yes…now that i’ve thought about it a moment…i believe at least in part that it is the ultimate goalof our exhistance. among others. so not THE, but in THE MOST IMPORTANT section of priorities. the reason i argree is our creator wants most of all for the people of the earth to learn love and happiness….the is his will for us. if it his will…how can it also not ours? even innately…

why do we want it? because when we have it…we find the breathe to move along to the next moment. imagine a life void of…………air. that is a lfe without happiness.

is it success? that one totally depends on your own definition of ‘success’. emotionally, morally, financially, etc. the feeling of peace, i think, equals success.

as to why you are living your life…that will be a long journey that i am just in the middle of myself. no understanding? it’s deeper than most humans grasp that we can go….so learn as much as you can and you can never go wrong.
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]]> By: thomas w http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success/comment-page-1#comment-4649 thomas w Mon, 01 Mar 2010 05:56:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success#comment-4649 There is only two kinds of happiness... One is pleasure... The second kind is self accomplishment. "But what is self accomplishment?" you ask. Well johnny boy... Self accomplishment is something you done by yourself and became satisfied of the outcome. There is no "ultimate goal." The idea of success in life alone is that we all want in life. Nothing less... More is also acceptable. There is no one way to succeed. It's up to you to decide what you can do to benefit the world from your doings. It could be small as volunteering.. or something big as in working at disney world. Like I said.. It's up to you.<br><b>References : </b><br> There is only two kinds of happiness… One is pleasure… The second kind is self accomplishment. "But what is self accomplishment?" you ask. Well johnny boy… Self accomplishment is something you done by yourself and became satisfied of the outcome. There is no "ultimate goal." The idea of success in life alone is that we all want in life. Nothing less… More is also acceptable. There is no one way to succeed. It’s up to you to decide what you can do to benefit the world from your doings. It could be small as volunteering.. or something big as in working at disney world. Like I said.. It’s up to you.
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]]> By: knowalotlearnalot http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success/comment-page-1#comment-4648 knowalotlearnalot Mon, 01 Mar 2010 05:54:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success#comment-4648 Happiness appears to be a function of evolution. We naturally have cravings so that we do the things that make our species successful. If we didn't do that, then our species would have gone extinct a long time ago. For example, eating makes people feel happy. They crave food. If that wasn't the case, then people wouldn't eat, and we would all die quickly. We wouldn't be here if we it didn't make us happy to do the things that we have to do to be here.<br><b>References : </b><br>http://onlinephilosophyclub.com Happiness appears to be a function of evolution. We naturally have cravings so that we do the things that make our species successful. If we didn’t do that, then our species would have gone extinct a long time ago.

For example, eating makes people feel happy. They crave food. If that wasn’t the case, then people wouldn’t eat, and we would all die quickly. We wouldn’t be here if we it didn’t make us happy to do the things that we have to do to be here.
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]]> By: thegrovesofdoubt http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success/comment-page-1#comment-4647 thegrovesofdoubt Mon, 01 Mar 2010 05:52:59 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success#comment-4647 happiness isn't a state of mind it's a moment in time...it's a cookie, its a smoke, it an orgasm<br><b>References : </b><br>dennis leary happiness isn’t a state of mind it’s a moment in time…it’s a cookie, its a smoke, it an orgasm
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]]> By: :) http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success/comment-page-1#comment-4646 :) Mon, 01 Mar 2010 00:50:51 +0000 http://selfhelpu.com/success/concepts-of-happiness-and-success#comment-4646 <b>what is happiness? is it the ultimate goal? why do we want it? is it success?</b><br>i'm so confused as to why i'm living my life or trying to be happy. i don't understand the whole concept of happiness anyway. please help. what is happiness? is it the ultimate goal? why do we want it? is it success?
i’m so confused as to why i’m living my life or trying to be happy. i don’t understand the whole concept of happiness anyway. please help.

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